
This photo was taken on a beautiful day. Cold, blue skies, sunny – wrapped up in my hat and gloves, it was glorious. Then I turned 180O and saw these doom-laden clouds. They didn’t remain long, they didn’t unleash a torrential downpour; I turned away, and the rest of the walk remained perfect.
I avoid talking about politics and religion – I don’t like the conflict, even though I have strong opinions and I’m secure in my beliefs. I get weighed down, don’t have confidence that I can cite the pertinent evidence at the right time, or don’t feel I have the right to speak up on a particular issue.
I’m a doomscroller – taking it all in, becoming more horrified by what I’m reading. If I had the nerve to reply to some of the tweets over the past… well, five years I suppose, I’d mostly be saying “Oh, come on, really?” Sometimes, I wonder how people watching the same incident or press conference can see such different things.
Which brings me back to my photo. I could have chosen to focus on the black clouds and scurried home, but I would have missed out on the rest of a beautiful walk.
That’s a great attitude. It is almost frightening how two people can see the same thing and come to such wildly different conclusions. Like you, I remain silent. My opinion isn’t popular anyway so why beat my head against a brick wall?
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I feel headfirst into a conversation the other day where we were both on opposite sides. I was at work, and I really try hard not to argue with the gym users – it was about a TV programme and I thought it was safe!
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We have to take breaks from it. Great post. xo
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I’ve been editing all day and hardly touched social media apart from a quick scan at lunchtime – it can be done 🙂
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There is positive in everything – we just need to focus on it. Which is why I swear I am posting nothing but kittens on Facebook for the next couple months!
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Oh yes, kittens would work. I particularly liked the baby goats I saw a couple of months ago. Now, THEY are cute!
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Hi Annalisa – always something to be pleased about … even starting out in freezing weather … our bodies warm up soon and we feel better – don’t we!! All the best – the days are getting longer … take care – Hilary
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Oh, yes, that bracing feeling when you return from a frosty walk and sit down with a mug of tea… and a chocolate biscuit, obviously. Nothing quite like it. I look for the longer days on 23 December 🙂
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Those clouds are majestic.
Your dog is a cutie:)
Take special care.
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We have some incredible clouds in Cornwall. Today was another stunning example, but I didn’t take pics. Artoo hates having his photo taken – I’m surprised he stood still 🙂
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I like your attitude. I often don’t retreat from weather (but often avoid commenting on social media!) And my last dog did not like his picture taken, either.
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There were a couple of really torrential showers during our heatwave last year, which I got caught in. There’s no point going home when you literally cannot get any wetter!
Thanks for reading 🙂
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It seems you get attacked for saying “hi” these days. Heck, I practically have.
Silence is often safest.
Take care, Annalisa.
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Sorry to hear that’s been your experience, Robyn. Don’t think of it as silence, think of it as watching events from the Royal Box with a tub of popcorn! x
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